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I'm going to make a super unpopular post, super quick.

PORN!

I love porn. My boyfriend love's porn. We watch porn. 

Having been on Tumblr long enough to be bombarded by extremist-feminist posts everyday, I can safely say that porn is a no-no in the feminist world.

The sex industry, as we all know, caters to some of the darkest fantasies - whether that be rape, pedophilia, bestiality, etc. For a while now, stories have been appearing about women who were forced into the sex business or women who willingly chose the business only to be met with harassment, rape, and unprofessional business. 

And yes, the thought that such things happen is sickening, thus, we have the movement of women (and some men) who are calling for an end to porn. An end to people purchasing or watching or making porn. An end to porn, that will hopefully bring about changes to rape culture society.

Maybe I'm the bad, evil, anti-feminist, but I see nothing wrong with porn. And I will not call for an end to it or bash people who enjoy it.

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There are a lot of feminists bashing people with kinks. God forbid you're a man who enjoys slapping a girl in the face. BECAUSE JESUS DIDN'T YOU KNOW THAT IF YOU ENJOY THAT YOU'RE A MISOGYNISTIC PIECE OF SHIT WHO WILL RAPE AND MURDER A WOMAN IN THE FUTURE. YOU FUCKING SCUM!!! HOW DARE A MAN EVER HIT A WOMAN!

Please note: consent is key here. If you are hitting a woman in the face without implicit consent, you are dildo munching cock mildew. However, with consent - and I mean full-on consent full-time with no questions - go ahead! Enjoy! Kink it up!

Even worse is if you're a woman who enjoys any demeaning activity during sex. HOW CAN YOU CALL YOURSELF A FEMINIST IF YOU WILLINGLY LET YOURSELF BE SLAPPED OR ROUGHED UP! YOU CANNOT ALLOW IT! THE ONLY CONCEIVABLE REASON YOU WOULD EVEN LIKE IT IS BECAUSE YOU WERE OPPRESSED FROM A YOUNG AGE AND TAUGHT TO LIKE BEING DEMEANED. DON'T LET THE PATRIARCHY RUN YOUR LIFE. 

I hate this type of feminism. Like what the shit people? I personally enjoy being man-handled. I love being pinned to the bed and spanked forcefully. I love having a hand on my throat (mind you, without being deprived of air). I love being slapped in the face - hard too. I love being called filthy names. And I know my boyfriend loves participating in this sexual activity. 

Does this mean that I'm oppressed? No! Does this mean that I was taught from a young age to like rough sex? No!

Does this mean that my boyfriend is a psycho waiting to rape someone for real? No! Does this mean that he hates women and thinks they are playthings? NO!

I'm seriously fucking tired of the anti-kink shit going around. If you like to be dominated, it doesn't mean you're a wilting flower, anti-feminist, pathetic woman. If you like to dominate, it doesn't mean you are a potentially sick rapist.

Tl;dr - fucking feminists on Tumblr make me want to vomit...and that's saying a lot...considering I'm the biggest emetophobe you'll ever meet.